Guys always ask me for the best pick-up lines, the fanciest language patterns, the latest verbal tricks, and the most interesting gimmicks that seduce women.
These tools all work of course. Use them.
But guys who only concentrate on learning verbal language techniques are missing a CRITICAL element of the seduction.
And because of this missing element, they hardly EVER get laid.
Pick-up lines, language patterns, verbal tricks and gimmicks are NOT enough to get laid in general. They WILL get smiles and eye contact, but smiles and eye contact are far removed from a girl jumping in bed with you.
So what is the missing ingredient that so many guys leave out of the recipe?
What the typical guy doesn’t realize is that a HUGE part of the male-female interaction happens on a subtle nonverbal level… a level without words.
Consider it like this – consider verbal techniques the roof, and nonverbal projection the walls and foundation. Without the latter, the former caves in.
Let’s consider the state projected by “the typical guy” when he walks into a bar. What does he do?
The typical guy stands in the corner so as not to be noticed.
The typical guy looks at the dance floor, hypnotized by it.
The typical guy holds his drink up by his chest, as if he shielding himself.
The typical guy slouches to one side.
The typical guy looks around the room with wide, shifty eyes.
Now, how do you think beautiful women are going to react to the typical guy?
…ignore him. …not talk to him. …not even notice he’s there!
In other words, have total indifference toward him.
Now how about the Seduction Science guy who has conscious control over the sexual state he projects?
The Seduction Science guy is totally relaxed, without tension in his shoulders.
The Seduction Science guy smiles at beautiful women.
The Seduction Science guys holds eye contact and isn’t the first to break it.
The Seduction Science guy moves across the room deliberately, with purposeful control.
The Seduction Science guy isn’t hypnotized by the dance floor.
The Seduction Science guy doesn’t flinch when approaching a woman.
The Seduction Science guy is laid back enough to pop wood in the presence of beautiful women and laugh about it.
Imagine walking into a club, projecting and oozing sexuality – relaxed, laid back, and with a smile. The girls sense your sexual relaxation as soon as you enter. You look at the woman who catches your eye, approach her with a cocky swagger, invade her personal space without apology, and look her right in the eyes with a smile just for her. You pause, lean back, look her body up and down once playfully, and say “Hi.”
Of course, her friends will start to giggle given then social tension you’ve just created – which is sexy to women. And your target won’t be able to keep her eyes off you – as you’re so close and so cool that her heart can’t help beating faster.
ALL OF THIS CAN HAPPEN WITHOUT SAYING A DAMN WORD!
And see the difference between the energy projected by the typical guy and the energy projected by someone who is in control of their nonverbal sexual state?
The first leads to indifference. The second, to grabbing women’s attention and making their hearts flutter and their breaths gasp.
So WHY is nonverbal communication for projecting a sexual state so important to seduction?
Verbal communication only stimulates the CONSCIOUS part of a woman’s mind – the high-level, thinking part of her mind that accepts and blocks input based on logic.
For example, if you try to convince a woman to sleep with you by going up to her and saying, “Hey babe – I’m the HOTTEST guy you have EVER seen,” you can’t expect her to swoon all over you. Your verbal communication is engaging the conscious, logical part of her mind that filters input. Your command is blocked.
“Yeah right!” she might probably tell you.
But nonverbal communication is not processed by a woman’s conscious mind, like language is. Nonverbal communication is processed by a woman’s reptilian brain – the physical part of her brain that evolved millions of years before the Mammalian Limbic brain ever evolved around it.
The reptilian brain is much like a baby’s brain. It doesn’t think “yes” or “no” or with any kind of logic. Whatever goes in is simply accepted, or it fights or it flees.
So if you go up to a woman and say to her, “Hey babe – I’m the HOTTEST guy you have EVER seen,” and your BODY LANGUAGE is CONGRUENT with your words, she WILL feel attracted to you.
“Gulp,” she might respond.
NOT because of what you said, but because of HOW you said it.
In other words, if you go up to a woman and start reading out of the telephone book, “Martin John… 555-6666… Peter Timberlake… 666-7777” but WITH the body language of, “Hey babe – I’m the HOTTEST guy you have EVER seen,” she will STILL feel attracted to you.
Because it’s your nonverbal cues – the sexual state that you’re projecting – that directly bypasses her conscious, critical mind and directly affects her much old, reptilian brain that only feels sex or flight.
By being able to project sexual states, you’ll be able to comfortably feel and act sexual around beautiful women, and in turn have beautiful women feel sexual attraction for you. You’ll be able to use your nonverbal sexual communication to directly bypass the critical walls of a woman’s conscious mind and directly touch the reptilian brain behind it that responds to sex.
Of course, in this report I just described SOME of what is takes to project a sexual state through nonverbal cues.
… but what about projecting and controlling your voice?
… what about moving in and invading a woman’s personal space?
… what about keeping your body language free and open?
All of this and more is explored in detail in the audio course Nonverbal Sexual Cuing . Nonverbal Sexual Cuing has some GREAT advice on how to control your nonverbal body language and how to project a sexual state – as well as visualization walk-through rehearsals that you can do at home even BEFORE you go out.
Remember, no matter how many languaging techniques you have, they won’t help you unless your body language isn’t that of a nervous, needy “typical guy”! That’s why Nonverbal Sexual Cuing can lay the FOUNDATION of your success, while my Seduction Science System course builds the HOUSE.
Your Friend ,
Derek Vitalio is one of the leading authorities on How to Attract and Seduce beautiful women his book Seduction Science is highly recommended.