Once you become aware of her cheating on you it is natural to want to know all about the events that led to her cheating ways.
Focusing on everything outside of you after she cheats is the easy thing to do because it is the least painful.
Unfortunately it is also ineffective when it comes to the realities of why you were cheated on, how you can move on from it, as well as what you can learn from her cheating ways and take with you in the future.
When you focus on the cheating you are moving backwards, dealing with things you can not change and can not control.
In other words focusing on her cheating is time wasted as once you are satisfied with her cheating past (which isn’t going to happen) you still must deal with the most important part, which is what is going on inside of you.
Only now you have a lot of useless information that will only complicate matters when it comes to doing what you must in order to move on and find that committed relationship that you are looking for.
In fact, you might even find yourself making changes in yourself based on her cheating past that aren’t going to help you even if your goal was to stay in a relationship with her without her cheating on you again.
All you need to know in regards to her cheating past is the man that you were in the relationship is a man that she decided to cheat on.
Now, you must look inside yourself uncover and heal the pain, release the negative emotions that are sure to come and then ask yourself how happy are you with the man that you are becoming.
Once you discover the answer to that you can adjust your life according to what you want instead of what might have prevented her from cheating on you.
Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com